(RNS) — The Hindu holiday of Raksha Bandhan, which falls on Saturday (Aug. 9), has long followed a familiar custom: a sister ties a rakhi, or sacred thread, around her brother’s wrist to symbolize her love and prayers for his well-being. In return, the brother gives her a gift and promises to protect her.
That message didn’t always sit right with some Hindus.
“Over and over, the narrative that I heard growing up was quite clear: the woman is asking for her protection from the brother,” said Ajanta Chakraborty, a children’s book author and public speaker. “I always felt that it should be a two-way street. In a sibling relationship, and for that matter, any relationship, both parties should take care of each other.”
The holiday is now getting what practitioners like Chakraborty say is a much-needed revamp. No longer does the celebration have to be gendered, say these American Hindus. Instead, Raksha Bandhan, which directly translates to “bond of protection,” should celebrate mutual care, affection and equality in all familial relationships.
“Every family is figuring this out in their own way,” she told RNS. “No matter what your family looks like, there is still a way to be part of this beautiful festival.”
Author Ajanta Chakraborty, right, and h …